And there’s always time to turn it around, no matter what you’ve done in your past…If you used to hold r**ist views, what changed your mind? White neighborhood, white schools, white friends. Mom was surprised when I brought home a girlfriend from college who wasn’t white. Turns out all of the people my parents hate are actually really f**king nice and supportive people once you treat them as humans. I thought she had a weird name and I was disappointed when I found out she wasn’t white.