What’s tough for me, though, is that my confidence and my wit go out the window around women I’m attracted to. I often end up dating women I’m less into because I’m comfortable around them, and before you know it, we’ve fallen into a relationship. But like I said before, I’m terrified of women I’m attracted to. I’m having trouble interacting with women I’m attracted to, and I have a lot of trouble making my intentions known, asking them out, showing that I’m interested. To put it another way: you’re treating talking to women you’re attracted to like you’re on the bomb squad.