DEAR NO HALLOWEEN: Why not host a small gathering outside -- in your backyard or another private area -- where you allow your children to invite a few friends? All children should wear masks the entire time, which shouldn’t be hard since children wear masks on Halloween anyway. DEAR HARRIETTE: I have two young children who are longing to go trick-or-treating for Halloween. I don’t think accusing him of infidelity will help us any, either, although I have half a mind to chew him out for what I think he may have already done. Sit down with your husband and tell him that you want to refresh your commitment to each other.