DEAR HARRIETTE: I keep waking up in the night with the realization that I do not want to stay married. It feels like things could naturally end after our kid goes to school, but I am scared to death about what to do next. I work, but I don’t make a lot of money, and I have virtually no savings. -- At the EndDEAR AT THE END: Do you think your marriage is worth saving? At these pivotal transition points in a marriage, couples often need to figure out ways to recommit.