In this family, the wife has more responsibility at work and works more demanding hours, leaving the childcare to the father and the nanny most days. Since the family membership included two adults and two children, he listed his kids, himself, and his nanny, since they would be the four people most likely to check out the exhibit. When his wife found out she was angry, and thought him choosing the nanny over her for the membership really said something about his feelings for her. My wife discovered it after looking on our account because the kids and nanny are going today so she wanted confirm the membership was good. Others thought the wife was right, and the guy is a jerk for listing his nanny as part of his family.