If you’re looking for ways to be more zen as a parent, people who have been there suggest letting go of these 12 things. There’s not a parent among us who hasn’t gone six rounds over one more bite of food, but listen. If you let go of those “supposed to” feelings, though, you’re more likely to enjoy your family just the way they are. Everyone makes mistakes – as long as you learn and improve afterward, you’re doing the adult human thing right. If you’re a happy parent, share with us in the comments what else you would put on this list!