DEAR HARRIETTE: I have a big birthday coming up, and I don’t know what to do. I want to do something like that, but thanks to COVID-19, we still can’t get together in person. -- CelebrateDEAR CELEBRATE: Is there an outdoor area where you and some friends can gather that might give you a chance to meet up with some of your loved ones in person? A video party can also be fun, but that, too, should be limited in scope. Extending your celebration to a week or a month of smaller engagements may be fulfilling for all!