Jim: For most moms, the job description seems to be something like this: You hit the floor running in the morning, and you don't stop until you collapse into bed exhausted late at night. Do you know how to care for your inner world as well as you do your outer world? You won't find inner peace by controlling a crazy outer world, but by creating calm within your crazy. Q: How should we respond to our teenager when he claims that we don't care about what he has to say? We do try to give him our full attention whenever he talks to us, so we don't think his accusations are fair.