If you live a long life, that’s about the number of years you’re going to spend with your current or future life partner, give or take a few. For a woman who wants to have biological children with her husband, she has one very real limitation in play, which is the need to pick the right life partner by forty, give or take. Still, if it were me, I’d rather adopt children with the right life partner than have biological children with the wrong one. Fear-Driven FridaFear is one of the worst possible decision-makers when it comes to picking the right life partner. Shallow SharonShallow Sharon is more concerned with the on-paper description of her life partner than the inner personality beneath it.