So for the last months we only texted each other and nothing changed, we still talked a lot and things were cool. The thing is, we didn’t have a relationship and we weren’t really friends. I’ve been crying a lot since things ended and I can’t even work. Here is the third thing you need to know: a lot of what you’re feeling is coming from your hurting your own feelings. The real truth is: you don’t know and you will likely never know and that’s ok.