Often don’t know how to respond, haven’t reflected on themselves or I’ve gotten “you just talk way too much for a guy”. BUT my choices in potential partners to date seem to only want or go one maybe two levels deep in conversation about emotional intelligence and self-awareness. OkCupid I thought was good at first because it lets a man write freely and introspective women love to read and therefore “hear” a man’s voice through his writing. Women don’t know how to respond to such depth and if you take the friend route….. now I feel like a mentor. The issue isn’t that women aren’t used to a guy with depth or emotion, it’s that more often than not, those guys aren’t displaying actual emotional intelligence.